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TomandBunny explain Hedonism 2 Resort in Jamaica – Part 1

We talk about other things to do at Hedonism!
So we have been to Hedonism in Jamaica 18 or more times with Tom’s Trips and the last time we were there we realized that there is so much more to Hedonism II then going to the Nude Pool, Drinking and having sex!  Listen to this podcast about some other fun things to occupy your time during your vacation at the worlds largest swingers lifestyle resort.

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Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

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Sunny Buns 2020

We just got back from Hedonism II in Jamaica hosting our Tom’s Trips Sunny Buns group trip! It was so much fun we would like you all to join us next year!
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Are you ready to enjoy the all new Tom’s Trips Mo Fun, Less Drama fall extravaganza at Hedonism II.  The Sunny Buns are all about having a great time.  This is a exciting open minded and fun filled group hosted by Tom’s Trips host couple Tom and Bunny and featuring the Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze.

We will have the most prizes and best parties of any group at Hedonism.  Join us for events around the Hedonism and around Negril as we travel to the coolest bars, best restaurant, and premium shopping locations.  You can count on the the experienced Tom’s Trips team to show you the ropes and make sure you have a great time.

When you join a Tom’s Trips group you benefit from working with the 4 time Travel Agent of the Year and the experienced staff who make sure that you get the best events planned during the week.  Take advantage of the very best prices of the year.

Tom and Bunny & Mark and Terri will be on hand this trip to make sure your vacation is taken care of.

What is included when you book with Tom’s Trips – New Years Eve Hedonism II

  • Tom’s Trips Host Couples
  • Tom’s Trips Express Check-In
  • On-Site Agent from Tom’s Trips
  • Courtyard Games & Shenanigans
  • Fantasy XXX Play Room – with MotorBunny
  • Tom’s Trips Happy Hour at the Nude Pool
  • Personalized Beaded Necklace
  • Check-In Gifts
  • Tom’s Trips Pool  Parties
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Tuesday night GLOW PARTY!
  • Group Catamaran Trip *Extra Cost Applies
  • Group Excursion *Extra Cost Applies

What is Included in your stay at Hedonism II

  • All you can eat and drink at 5 restaurants and 4 bars
  • Daily Land and Water Sports (non-powered)
  • Scuba and Snorkeling
  • Daily Entertainment
  • Nightly Entertainment
  • Disco
  • Piano Bar
  • Theme Nights
  • White Sand Beach (Nude and Prude)
  • 3 Pools
  • 2 Hot Tubs
  • Be As Naughty As You Want To Be

Shower Fresh

Are you Shower Fresh?
Today we talk to Mike and Denise, friends of ours and host couple for Tom’s Trips about what proper hygiene is all about, from washing those intimate areas to shaving and taking precautions to be ready for play and not offend your play partners.  Listen to this podcast as we get real honest in our approach to educate the listeners on this critical subject!

Leave a comment below and tell us your thought on this subject, have you ever been with someone who was fresh out of the shower or have you been with someone that had the smell of funk all in their crotch area?  we want to know!  Post below.

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http://www.swinglifestyle.com

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Listen to our new Podcast!  We can be found on the following sites as well as right here on ours!
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Spotify Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle Itunes Podcast for Swinging Lifestyle

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Travel Safe

We travel all over the United States, Mexico and Jamaica and when we talk to people we are constantly hearing how they have had things missing from their hotel rooms including from inside their hotel safes.   Typically the thieves will remove what is quick to grab such as phones, tablets, jewelry and money.  Many have said that they have been missing money from their wallets from inside their hotel room safe!

What the thief will do is open your safe with the universal code and when they go into your wallet they will grab some cash from the middle as most people will put money in specific orders from high to low so by taking money from the middle you are less likely to notice right away, you may feel something is wrong but unless you know exactly how much money you had in your wallet you may feel you either bought something or over paid somewhere and go on with your day.

Credit card theft is also huge.  What the thief will do in this case regardless if they go into your safe or you leave your wallet in a drawer, they will actually take your credit cards and take photos of the front and the back of each card as well as your identification as mostly they only need the zip code of the billing address of the credit card and that is most likely going to be the same zip code listed on your ID.   They will wait a few days to a few weeks to let you get home and then start purchasing items using your credit cards.  Keep a look on your bank accounts, as they will typically make very tiny purchases that would normally not be noticed by you or raise concern, once they have established they have all the info needed and the small purchases have gone through they will make much larger purchases until the card is declined or the limits have been reached.

We have come up with some suggestions below to help combat theft during your vacation and we hope that you don’t experience anything like this.

  • Milockie Safe Lock -The Milockie Hotel Safe Lock ensures only you can open your room safe. EVEN THOSE WITH A PASSCODE or PASS KEY CAN NOT OPEN IT.The Milockie Hotel Safe Lock provides additional security to your hotel room safe or resort locker. Not only is it a visual deterrent (much like a security yard sign is for your home) but it also prevents the safe door from being opened by someone else using a master key or electronic combination to open the safe. With a Milockie in place, only you can open the safe.Thefts from hotel room safes and resorts is an under-reported problem. Don’t be a victim of money or other valuable possessions “mysteriously” disappearing from your hotel room safe, cruise line room safe, or guest locker. Unfortunately, when these thefts occur, rarely is there evidence that a theft actually happened because the safe is never damaged, leaving travelers to make a claim that has little support other than the traveler’s word.

    That’s because thefts using a master key or master code to open the safe leave no evidence.

    Use Your Own Lock

    One of the features of the Milockie Hotel Safe Lock is that you use your own padlock. While the Milockie Safe Lock comes with a three-dial combination lock, it is strongly recommended that you replace the lock with a stronger combination lock that would better resist an attack. The Milockie Lock will accept a padlock with a hasp up to 1/2 inch in diameter. Note the strap will show wear with use but remains effective just slide it a bit if you feel it necessary. Housing is a sturdy plastic (metal is too heavy) and easy to pack and travel with.

  • Hair Brush Safe – The Stash-it Hair Brush Diversion Safe is a great way to hide your valuables!  There is enough room to safely fit 30 rolled bills.  This is a great way to hide your money as you are traveling, headed to the beach, or anywhere you find yourself carrying valuables.  Most people don’t want to handle others hairbrushes so it serves as an excellent diversion from would be thieves or nosy friends and family.Some examples of items to Stash
      • Money!
      • Jewelry (use the stash-it bag included so the jewelry doesn’t rattle in the brush
      • USB jump drives with personal information
      • Other items that you would rather be out of plain sight!

     

  • Luggage Combo Locks – Protect your luggage with top quality 4-digit combination TSA-approved padlocks. 4-digit locks offer 10,000 combinations and take 10 times longer to crack than 3-digit locks. TSA Approved Locks allows TSA screeners to inspect your luggage without damaging the locks. Numbers are easy to maneuver, reset and set to your own preferred passcode.
  • Hidden Spy CameraThe hard reality is that you can’t always trust the people in your life, which means you need to keep a watchful eye on your home, your family, and the people that are constantly moving in and out of your world.That’s why we created this Spy Camera and USB Charger, a smart 2-in-1 device that works like a standard USB charger for mobile devices but also record video in crystal-clear 1080P high definition!

    Personal and Professional Versatility This multipurpose portable mini spy camera with 1080P HD clarity can be used to safeguard your home or office even when you’re not around.

    Offering easy plug-and-play use with any electrical outlet, the slim, compact, and discrete design helps hide the memory card slot, doesn’t record sound, and has no visual indicators for complete stealth mode


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TomandBunny discuss going to a Clothing Optional or Nudist Resort and not feeling insecure

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In this video we discuss going to a Nudist or Clothing Optional resort and lacking body confidence.  We discuss our first time going to a Nude only spa and offer other advice and talk about many topics.  Please comment below your thoughts!

Follow up video
We recommend you watching our video on BODY CONFIDENCE after watching this video

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Toms Trips Ms No Swim Suit Geri with Tom and Bunny

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We talk to Mike and Gheri Contestant #7 who represented PlayersDFW Nightclub at the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swim Suit Contest and won second place at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica, Watch and see how much fun this couple had at this annual event.   Please comment below your thoughts!

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Convincing your spouse to swing

Convincing your spouse to swing

Convincing your spouse to swing

We recently we posed with this question from our Facebook group from a member wanting to know how to convince his spouse to enter into the swingers lifestyle.   On this podcast we discuss our opinions regarding this.

we welcome your feedback and opinions below at the bottom of our page.

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Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats

Dear Tom and Bunny

Can a relationship go back to exactly how it was after one cheats?

Our Opinion

We don’t condone cheating for any reason whats so ever.  we often hear all the time that they love their spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend or whatever they identify as.  We know people can have a lot of love for each other in a sexless commitment however we also know that in our instance, we initially got together as we had a sexual attraction for each other and thankfully we still have that sexual attraction if not more today than before.   Cheating is a very hard breach of trust with most people, while some can get past it, is it going to go back exactly as it was before?  we don’t think it would, regardless if the other person says they fully forgive the person who cheated, it would be something they will remember for the rest of their lives.

Can two people get past the cheating, very possible, and we know that people forgive all the time, we know we have done things in our lives that the other one of us may not have agreed with and is willing to move past that situation as the current situation is much better than the unknown.

Would our relationship go back to exactly the way it was? No it couldn’t because of the trust.  it would take many years of trust to be on the same page however there will always be that twinge of doubt and it would be something that needed to be worked on for life and if you love the person you are with and you were the one cheating, you have to always and forever remind her or him how much you love them, how sorry you are and always make sure they have no reason to doubt your actions in the future.

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We want to start swinging very slow

Dear Tom and Bunny

Hi

I came across to one of your videos and I have seen many of them so as you can imagine what kind of search I was doing. Just a little bit about myself. I have been married for more than 26 years, we got married when we were eighteen and this is something that you also mention on one of your videos about getting married at a young age. We live in South Florida. We would like to start very slow, we consider ourselves to be conservative so I want to get your advice to see what is the best to start and see if we like to be voyeurs or exhibitionist,  or something else so what do you recommend is the best way to start because one thing is to say it and another is to do it. Maybe go to the Hotel in Hollywood? Anyway, your videos help a lot but still if you can give us some advice will be great.

Thank you

 

HI MG,

We are very aware of the hotel you mention in your email, while it is a great hotel and a lot of fun and we recommend it to everyone new and experienced, for what you are asking specifically we do not think this is the best avenue to take if you are wanting to see a full picture of what a swingers situation really is.  with you being in South Florida and you mention Hollywood, if you go over to Trapeze Ft. Lauderdale on a Saturday night, the club will be packed full of people.  you can go people watch to your hearts desires from the mixing and mingling in the social areas and the dance floor and of course you can walk the play rooms all without having to do anything you do not want to do.  If you decide you want to play, there are both an everyone is welcome area and a couples only area. They have a great staff, bartenders and a full food buffet that would be 5 stars so that you do not even have to go eat before going and you can bring your own alcohol and they have all the mixers, please remember to tip your bartenders.  they do have a valet, we highly suggest you valet because they have all the upfront parking and your car is at risk parking on your own unless you get there really early you may find some spare up front parking.  Go in with smiles and appear to be approached and talk to people, remember, talking is not a guarantee to sex on either side; however it is a lot more fun talking to people than being a wall flower.  Be part of the party and you will want to go back again.   We suggest you go to our site http://www.tomandbunny.com (which we assume you have already been) and click on Clubs; you can watch our Trapeze Ft Lauderdale video to see what it looks like on the inside.  Sorry we do not have a Miami Velvet video and we have not been able to reach anyone about doing a video there and we do not have any experience there but you can also check out that club and know you do not need to do anything you do not want to do, as we say in our videos, you can only go as fast as the slowest person and there is no need to rush that person.  We also recently did a few videos that would cater to you, go to our videos link and click on the following videos – Misconceptions about the Swinging Lifestyle, Get up and meet people!, It’s expensive to be a swinger and Sex and Boundaries.  There are allot more videos that you can also watch but those are our newest.  Also just in case you do play, we made a video What’s in our play bag, always be prepared.

We would love to hear back from you on what you have experienced; Sort of keep tabs on how you are enjoying or not enjoying the lifestyle and your feedback on your experiences.

Thank you for your email

Tom and Bunny

If you have questions, please feel free to email us and we will do our best to answer with our opinions how we would do it.

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Party with us at Sunny Buns October 5th – 12th 2019 at Hedonism in Jamaica

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Adult Travel Hedonism II The Sunny Buns

Sexy backs of five beautiful women in bikini on the beach

Are you ready to enjoy the all new Tom’s Trips Mo Fun, Less Drama fall extravaganza at Hedonism II.  The Sunny Buns are all about having a great time.  This is a exciting open minded and fun filled group hosted by Tom’s Trips host couple Tom and Bunny and featuring the Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze.

We will have the most prizes and best parties of any group at Hedonism.  Join us for events around the Hedonism and around Negril as we travel to the coolest bars, best restaurant, and premium shopping locations.  You can count on the the experienced Tom’s Trips team to show you the ropes and make sure you have a great time.

When you join a Tom’s Trips group you benefit from working with the 4 time Travel Agent of the Year and the experienced staff who make sure that you get the best events planned during the week.  Take advantage of the very best prices of the year.Tom and Bunny and Mark and Terri Maze at Hedonism II resort in Jamaica

Tom and Bunny & Mark and Terri will be on hand this trip to make sure your vacation is taken care of.

Mark MazeTravel Agency of the Year Toms Trips and Entertainer of the Year Mark Maze

What is included when you book with Tom’s Trips – New Years Eve Hedonism II

  • Tom’s Trips Host Couples
  • Tom’s Trips Express Check-In
  • On-Site Agent from Tom’s Trips
  • Courtyard Games & Shenanigans
  • Fantasy XXX Play Room – with MotorBunny
  • Tom’s Trips Happy Hour at the Nude Pool
  • Personalized Beaded Necklace
  • Check-In Gifts
  • Tom’s Trips Pool  Parties
  • Cocktail Reception
  • Tuesday night GLOW PARTY!
  • Group Catamaran Trip *Extra Cost Applies
  • Group Excursion *Extra Cost Applies

What is Included in your stay at Hedonism II

  • All you can eat and drink at 5 restaurants and 4 bars
  • Daily Land and Water Sports (non-powered)
  • Scuba and Snorkeling
  • Daily Entertainment
  • Nightly Entertainment
  • Disco
  • Piano Bar
  • Theme Nights
  • White Sand Beach (Nude and Prude)
  • 3 Pools
  • 2 Hot Tubs
  • Be As Naughty As You Want To Be

Sunny Buns – Sept 28 to Oct 5, 2024